How did any of you cope with losing the love of your life?

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My ex cheated on me. We had been together 4 years. We stayed together but after 2 more years she left to be the with the guy she had cheated on me with. In a month she was back on her knees and told the guy to leave her alone and that he was a mistake. He actually told her even though she was coming back to me they should remain “friends with benefits”. I slowly took her back and the next 4 years were good but not much “desire” on my part physically. I cheated and she found out and tracked the guy she cheated on me with way back, and started dating him again. Other than this being a totally messed up situation (which it is) the only thing I’m trying to get from this is that I’m just trying to understand how she could go from being with him, cheating with me, leaving to be with him, flying back to me and now years later go back to him. I’m just trying to figure out “why”?

Category: Tags: asked July 28, 2015

3 Answers

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Sounds like it could be a revenge thing but also just that she knew this person was interested.
It doesnt mean she didnt regret cheating at the time.
Its hard to move on from someone you have so much history with but i promise that it is possible.
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Hey mate, Seems like its kinda complicated, but everything can be settled. If you think that you can't leave her then just tell her that, be confident and don't let your fears stand. I know that what you are trying to ask is, why she left you and why she did that even though you guys were a good couple for around four years. I think she found that guy more interesting for a second and when she got with him, she realized that she was wrong, but at the second time, she went to him just to make you jealous because you cheated on her. You should really ask her that question and not be afraid of that, cuz four years are not a day or a month to spend with someone. If you feel like talking or asking more about it, PM me!
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What I'm trying to understand is why did she go back to him the second time? I mean she and I are done, she's been back with the guy for almost two years now. I just couldn't go back to someone I cheated "with" if I really regretted doing it with them to begin with.