I grew up wondering that, and now that I am on the other end of the pain and suffering I feel like I have found an answer.Everything I have been through has shaped who I am today. Some of it helped make me a more sensitive and emotional person, while some of it created someone who was hurt and insecure.
I've worked through what's happened to me in my life and found inner peace, and once I was able to do that I realized that although I wish no one else had to go through so much either, at least I can be there for them to talk to because I've experienced it and gotten through it myself.
Whether it be family issues, depression, suicidal thoughts, experiencing someone die right before my eyes, etc. I can help a variety of people with a variety of problems because I've already been through it myself.
People who go through hurt and pain who are able to work through it and get to the other side of it have a chance to be some of the most sensitive, emotional, helpful and fantastic people because they've been through so much hurt and pain and made it through it.