This is the first time I’ve ever tried anything like this, so bear with me.
I’ve always had issues with confidence and self-worth, but lately it seems to be spiraling out of control. I can’t seem to find -anything- that keeps my spirits up for more than a day at a time.
I’m not hideous, or overweight, but i don’t remember the last time i looked at myself in the mirror and thought “Hey, i look good today!”. I recently started dieting and exercising as an attempt to boost my confidence, but it only made me feel good for a short while.
This has started effecting my relationship also, and while i know its my fault i just can’t seem to change my mind set. Even looking at a beautiful woman upsets me, because i know i -cannot look just like them-. I get self conscious and feel very small next to all of the beautiful talented people in the world, that i feel like i have no place in my significant other’s life. I keep quiet about my feelings as I’ve always found it hard to open up, which leads to arguments that seemingly come out of nowhere to my boyfriend. I constantly wonder how someone could even tolerate me, so in turn i push them away.
Even with knowing how crazy i sound, i can’t change. I feel like i’m slowly ruining my own life, and if i cant get my insecurities under control then i know i will lose everything i hold dear.
I hope this all makes sense