how can I make it stop bothering me?

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I have had similar questions in the past regarding this same peraon but I’m really trying to get past it so a breif summary:a year agao I met a my best friend eventually we had a bit of a realationship going on during this time I found out she already had a bf at the same time but at that point I had fallen in love with her already.she broke up with him and moved onto a new guy, I was going through emotional turmoil about everything at the time so we stopped talking for two reasons her new bf was a control freak and because I couldn’t stop thinking about her. So I spent the next 9 months trying to get over her. Right when I thought I did she and I start talking again because she and her bf broke up so she actually had the freedom to do so. After talking it made me remember everything I liked about her but it wasn’t the same because I spent the last 9 months trying to not think about her. Anyways we are now talking again and I’ve relized I still have feelings for her and she admitted when we began talking again that she still had some feelings for me however she began dating a mutual friend of ours about a month ago so 3 weeks after we began talking again. I’m really good friends with both of them she is my best friend and he is one of the closest guy friends I have but seeing them together just puts a pit in my stomache and bugs me to the point where I get deppressed. Is their anyway that I can keep this from bugging me so much?

Category: asked August 8, 2014

2 Answers

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I think that if your friend came back to you a second time then is now dating someone else again it seems it does not bother her to do you this way. If you want to be friends with her I would probably leave it at friends from now on and maybe you could get over it within time. If she comes back to you again then you would just have to tell her friends is what we are and I don't want to be more. I know this would be hard for you to say but it does not seem hard for her by what you have written to go to someone else even though she says she has feelings for you to. You know the situation the best so this is just advice that you have to decide on but if it were me I would be a friend and find someone else to date.
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I hate to say this but to me it sounds like she cant last long without being in a relationship with guys. If she was serious with anyone she has dated previously, she would have allowed some time to heal and move on before moving on to the next guy. If youre wanting to be with her too, i hope it works out for you.