I have had similar questions in the past regarding this same peraon but I’m really trying to get past it so a breif summary:a year agao I met a my best friend eventually we had a bit of a realationship going on during this time I found out she already had a bf at the same time but at that point I had fallen in love with her already.she broke up with him and moved onto a new guy, I was going through emotional turmoil about everything at the time so we stopped talking for two reasons her new bf was a control freak and because I couldn’t stop thinking about her. So I spent the next 9 months trying to get over her. Right when I thought I did she and I start talking again because she and her bf broke up so she actually had the freedom to do so. After talking it made me remember everything I liked about her but it wasn’t the same because I spent the last 9 months trying to not think about her. Anyways we are now talking again and I’ve relized I still have feelings for her and she admitted when we began talking again that she still had some feelings for me however she began dating a mutual friend of ours about a month ago so 3 weeks after we began talking again. I’m really good friends with both of them she is my best friend and he is one of the closest guy friends I have but seeing them together just puts a pit in my stomache and bugs me to the point where I get deppressed. Is their anyway that I can keep this from bugging me so much?