Hey everyone, I have been struggling for a couple years now with truly loving myself as a whole. This has led to some serious self-esteem/ confidence issues that really prevent me from being happy- it’s actually led to me being quite depressed most days… Anyways, I am pretty thin yet I’m constantly afraid that if any little increase in weight will make me unattractive to anyone who could possibly like me. I know it’s superficial but i feel like the only way I will find love is if i am physically beautiful. Still, I always feel inadequate when it comes to my body and personality because of all the societal pressure for women to have perfect bodies and because of all the media portraying these perfect/ideal women. I fear i am going to end up alone. I would really appreciate any insight anyone with a healthy self-esteem has to say about how they gained their confidence.