By worsening, i mean returning to my depressed state.
My boyfriend and I have an excellent relationship, and without any exterior conflict we would be fine. But that’s especially impossible.
He has been having the worst time with school, it’s pushed him to the brink of exhaustion, kept him constantly ill and tired, and is driving his last nerve. The amount of money he needs to spend on it is very daunting, and I see him sinking into 40,000 dollars of debt, and by the time he’s done it;l probably be 80,000, which is a lot for Canada. He never spends money on himself, and i’ve been paying for all i can, with food, gas, insurance, and rent when i can, though my job doesn’t cover everything i wish it did.
I see him break into tears much too often compared to how he used to be. And now, he had a light fender bender on a super pricey car, and the woman is claiming the scratch. I don’t want him to fall apart.
I know there’s no solution to everything, but is there anything I can do to stay strong for him? When I get stressed, i snap, i get anxious and i cry. He can’t take that right now, but i have no one in vancouver to talk to about it.
What do you suggest for me to help him, or to stay strong?