Sometimes a few of my friends talk about problems that they’re having, and I can’t give them any helpful advice and it makes me quite disappointed in myself for… One of my friends has a problem so similar to one of my own, so I’m pretty useless there. Another friend has started mentioning her home problems to me, which are way out of my hands. And another one asks me but is so clever that she usually figure it all out herself… It doesn’t help that the first two only really feel comfortable talking about their problems over stuff like chats. (They’re not very serious people in person.)
On this site, too. Although I like being confided in, I can’t give good advice. How can I give better advice?