I have posted her before, and because of the great responses, I have come back for more help. Me and this girl who live a couple states away have known each other for over 3 years. We’ve been great friends for a long time. I fell in love with her last year but then she decided to date someone in another country who’s an asshole. That broke my heart and we stopped talking between November and January because her boyfriend made her not talk to me. She finally messages me in February begging me to talk to her, crying, and all. She gets these panic attacks everyday and I’ve always been there for her for them, no matter how late at night it was. Her boyfriend or parents don’t know about them. But on to the point. So we’ve been talking for just over a week I would say. We’ve skyped each other a couple times for the first time in months, I was so happy to hear her beautiful voice again! We would only talk through Skype and snapchat, but mostly Skype. We would try to call everyday if she could. (And she and her boyfriend don’t call at all anymore because her boyfriend doesn’t offer to call her, and she yelled at him for that because they never would call often). She would only talk to me around 10 pm, which is after her boyfriend goes to sleep, and through my friend, I found out it was because she feels guilty about talking to me and her boyfriend not knowing she is(she told me she had to break her promise three times now because she wanted to talk to me). I care about her more than anything. I’m always there for her for her panic attacks, and I also love her. But I just feel like a side guy to her because she would only talk to me after he goes to bed and the past couple days she only said like 5 things everyday because she would end up falling asleep. It’s been hurting me, so yesterday I ignored her, I didn’t talk to her, when she said “I fell asleep, and I’m so sorry” after I told her that I was to depressed to wait for her to reply (she usually can take long to reply, and I hate it because I only get a couple hours with her everynight before she has to go to bed, and I want to cherish that time!) I mean, I’m glad she’s talking to me, that she’s breaking her promise for the third time, but you know, it hurts me because I kinda feel like a side guy to her. Am I doing something wrong? Should I not be feeling like that? Any help? I want her to talk to me more often, and I’ve heard that ignoring does the trick. But I love her, and I want her, and when she told me “I don’t think I will ever be truly happy” and “me and him can’t even hug”, I would tell her how I’m so much closer and can actually come visit her whenever(they never met). I love her to death. I made my choice in life, and she’s the one I want. Any help?