How can i endure a year and a half of high school without freaking out ?

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Hi.
So my problem is : I’m 16 y/o, i definitely hate whole of my “friends” and i still have a year and a half to go in a lost region deep in the countryside. I do drugs (marijuana for the most), it helps me to don’t kill everyone.

I hate people, i hate my friends and I hate the fact that my only friends are far away from me.

Don’t judge my poor English and answer… Please.

Category: Tags: asked December 17, 2013

6 Answers

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So why do you 'hate' your friends? Where is the anger coming from?
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What makes you hate so many things? As for smoking marijuana, I do it to so I'm not going to tell you to stop, because I understand how it helps you and the pain you're going through. I was kind of the same way when I was your age, but honestly, you need to find things that just make you happy. Everyday we need to deal with things we don't like. But if you know what makes you happy, if you find what makes you happy, it's what keeps us sane, honestly. Hang in there though, it will seem like it's going to take a long time, but before you know it, you'll be out of high school, on your own, doing your own thing.
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Dear, Where are your parents? Seek advice from you parents dear. They will help you more in your problems. Go to a church and talk to a priest if talking to your parents is not an option. Ask the priest to tell you what you can do about your problem? Cause I know how hard it is when your friends with people you hate. Hope this helps dear.
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I'm not christian or religious. I hate religion, but i respect it. My parents help me as they can, but they cannot understand why i hate the most of people around me.I think i've this anger because of the social pressure that forces me to hang out with people who are not like me. It's a bit boastful yeah, but when i'm talking to people in my highschool, all they can say annoys me. I feel different from them, as if I was at another level of thinking. I don't feel superior, just different.
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I know how you feel. I've had the same thing 2 years ago. My friends were interested in other things, they were extremely superficial and not like me. I just stayed friends with them, because.. I didn't want to feel alone.What kept me going was knowing what I wanted to do when I would finish high school. For me it was art/photography. I just focused on that and I felt better. 'Trying to find other friends' isn't going to work. It seems like the place you live is too small for your mind, and I went through the same thing. Small village, more cows than people. Some people grow up there, but don't belong there. Try finding that thing you want to do, the thing you love, and focus on that. That year and a half will fly by, I promise!
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Hating other people because you feel different from them seems a bit drastic. I have always felt quite different from most people and have been overwhelmed by them at times. I find that looking inward and finding out who I really am and what I really want and need, separate from those around me, has helped me to find a path in life that is quite gratifying.