how can i be more likeable?

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i have destroyed some important friendships because i am not good enough for people. idk what i’m doing wrong and i just want to be a person who everybody feels comfortable around. i am totally myself around others and i guess people don’t like that. any advice?

Category: asked May 31, 2014

9 Answers

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In order for other people to like you, you must first like yourself. It's like a house. If you don't have a strong foundation, there's no use in trying to make other connections. Or in this case, build beyond the foundation. Only you can tell yourself who you are. People aren't always going to be compatible with you, and that's a shame for them. As long as you're good enough for yourself, it doesn't matter what they think.
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There's always someone who'll be cool with you, and when you find those people keep em' close. I hate having to say it, but you can't please everybody. Actually, you can't please the majority. Relationships, in this case, the quantity, don't have to be numerous to be satisfying. Don't change anything, so long as your not harrassing or bothering others (which I doubt), it's them who's the problem. So in the words of the great Cage the Elephant, "It goes in one ear and right out the other, people talking shit, and no it never bothers..." Hopefully it helped, and if you'd like to chat, please feel free to contact me!
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Do you like yourself ? Because no matter how nice of a person you are, there's always gonna be someone, who won't like you and they're not worth your time. Though it may sound cliche it's important to treat others how you'd like to be treated, and if you feel like that's what you do, have more confidence in yourself. If you start to believe in yourself more, so will others, I can assure you.
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just be confident about yourself!! <3
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I agree with others here saying to be confident,but also know its hard if you already feel somewhat down .But Here's the thing!.You of cause need to be your self,but as long as you that at some time other must like you.
We all have different qualities and may be its just the people around you that have the problem,not you at all.
You can't force any one to like you.It might be you have to just keep your smile on and be nice without putting any thing n.One day things have to change,
As we dont know you,we dont know if you are to loud,to quiet,may be ts just one of those things that need to change a little.Really only you can tell.
I my self know if there is some one who is over the top loud I am no likely to go talk to them as it irritates me.Be patient,im sure all will get better soon.
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Be yourself, love who you are and the geniune people who love you for who you are will walk in your life. You don't need to change who you are for others, if they don't like who you are then they were never really good friends. Everyone has their own unique look and personality, embrace who you are.
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Where you said 'because im not good enough for people' is part of the problem, first things first, you need to know that you are always good enough! People will gravitate towards you if you have confidence in yourself, because it makes them feel good about themselves too. You go girl, just be you.
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You need to know that whether you think it or not, you're always worth it! I always find the most likeable people are the ones who are themselves. If you're true to yourself, then people will always be drawn to your personality, particularly those who are most attracted by it and therefore more likely to remain good friends. Being yourself will also help to make you more confident and you'll learn to love yourself more too!
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You need to come to terms with the fact not everyone will like you. ASnd that does not reflect on you or who you are because some people are just like that or they only like certain types of people so that is out of your control.People like being around bubbly happy people. So be happy. You are alive . live your life. People will come. I don't know how old you are or what you do but if in school then work through it. When you get a job your life feels more filled and happy because you meet new people and make friends.