How can I ask this guy on a casual date?

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I work at Old Navy and for the holidays they hired a bunch of extra people. A few weeks ago we had a meeting for the season and what to expect and kind of retrain all of us. Out of all the people that were there this one new guy caught my eye. Everyone had to stand up and introduce themselves and when he did I knew that I already liked him. I’ve worked with him twice now and every time we talk we just talk until we’re told we need to go do something. I haven’t been interested in dating mostly because I wasn’t over one of my ex’s, but with this guy it’s so different. I’m 16 and I think he is like 19ish but I’m really not sure. I just wish that he would ask me on a date so that I could get to know him better, and I don’t see him at work too often. He has a facebook and I don’t so I can’t message him on there. He likes this local band and I know what music he likes so I wish there was a concert around where I live but I don’t think there is. I just wish I had an excuse to basically ask him on a date. Right now I feel really hopeless, he’s the first guy I’ve met in a while that I actually feel a huge connection between. What should I do?

Category: asked December 1, 2013

3 Answers

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2 words: Lunch date! It's technically not a date, but in a way it kind of is. You both can sit down, eat, talk about whatever it is you both want, and it could possibly lead to a real date.
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Group settings help. Make some plans with a group of people (i.e. coworkers and friends) that all have a common interest. That would start the hanging out part of seeing if he's actually into you. Then around the end ask if he would want to hang again, but next time make it something that only you and him could do. It's sneaky in a way but it's an indirect way to ask someone out before asking them out.
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be confident and blunt but not scarily blunt