How can a word lazy affect you?

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I like to help alot and do things that will make me busy though..
but when it comes taking a break or not feeling like doing nothing
my family calls me lazy…

I really fed up with this… help

to those who assume wrong about this don’t comment thanks

asked October 13, 2014

3 Answers

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I totally understand how you feel, my family is the same. For this situation I just started to.. write down my frustrations and my thoughts. I keep a diary for everything, and most of the time, when I feel down and angry, epecially at my family, I listen to music and write, or sometimes I draw too in order to vent my feelings.

Maybe what you want is telling them how you feel, and you can if you still didn't try it out. But for me, it didn't work, that's why I suggested you the writing thing. I hope that it will go better for you. :)

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My family used to do that. I did help out a ton, but my parents expected me to be productive 24/7, which I wasn't capable of.
First try talking to them. Point out in concrete terms what you're doing to help them, and explain that you'd like to take breaks every once in a while. If it helps, you could give them specific times that you're going to relax, like saying "I'm going to watch TV for an hour after I get home to decompress." If you give your case in terms of relaxing being good for mental health, they should give you some time.
In my case, my mom told me that needing to relax was BS, so I started hiding when I wanted to relax. I would take my bike out, or go on the computer and lie about doing homework for a while. I'm not sure how bad your parents are, but hopefully they'll listen better than mine.
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if they tell you you are lazy ask them what they have done today, then list off what you have done. turn the tables on them you did more now they are lazy; you did less then yes @ that moment of the day you are being lazy. make it a game that lifts you up. plus tell them that after a busy day or week you deserve a break. good luck