Okay, so in general when I am venting it seems like the people I vent to take my issues personally, like as if they are offended by what I am saying as if that my words are directed at them, when I make sure to tell them they are not, and anyway, why would a random person who only spoke to me once or twice take it personally when it is obvious that it isn’t about them?
I am just so confused about how I am supposed to vent, because I am starting to hate telling people my problems because lately I just don’t feel any improvement at all.
EDIT***: When I vent, I really don’t blame people, I just tell my feelings towards things or just my feelings.