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almost 8 months together, happy, and i find out he has a hot or not. and a kik. that’s not right, he says that im his one and only, but hes rating girls on their looks.

back in december, i had to go see my dad in a different state. i was gone for 10 days. that’s when my boyfriend messaged this girl on hot or not.. “id pound you so hard ik u prolly think imma creeper now but idc”. now at the time, that was during our 4 month. but still. thats not right for him to do that.

ever since i read that message, i havent been able to trust him completely. i have the right to not trust him, right?

Category: Tags: asked April 12, 2014
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You definitely have the right not to trust him. Being in a relationship means that you are completely into your significant other. Not rating other girls behind their back. Your supposed to want your boyfriend/girlfriend, not tell other people that you want to have sex with them. You have to be comfortable in the relationship and you have to trust one another. It's up to you how you want to handle it but a good boyfriend should never EVER do that to their girlfriend.
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Haha I already answered your other question but I'd thought I'd share my advice here too. In my opinion, I would be very hesitant to trust the guy too. Being in a relationship means you are committed to that person. Every person has a right to have opinions about people. Like the "Hot or not," however when you are in a relationship, that changes. He shouldn't be commenting on sites about "pounding someone." And if he keeps commenting about that stuff, he doesn't deserve you. And you deserve someone who would love you for who you are.
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Completely agree with the above. He should have respect and class not "lemme pund u bb" on some app or website. Second he should have respect for you as a female to nurture your feelings and your desires. He apparently can't satisfy his own needs, how could he satisfy yours?Get out while you still can and it wont hurt as much later.
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this relationship was trouble poisonous before and you let it go on for 4 more months? You are wasting you time and you life
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You should take a break and decide on what to do, drastic changes may harm you right away so try to get used to fact of not having him around since apparently he has no respect towards you. I do apologize.
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