He’s confusing me. :(

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Im starting to really like this kid. He sits behind me in my science class, i have lunch, gym & science (as above)with him and its just tearing me to shreds. sometimes i see him in the hallways and we always say hi to each other and he’d check me out like always & he flirts with me A LOT
Heres what he does:
In gym sometimes he checks me out or talks to me.
Lunch- i always catch him staring at me when i walk away, or when i start walking towards him, ill even go by his table to talk to him or some of his friends.
Science-
ok this is where he flirts the most because hes right behind me.
Hes always touching my arms or finding an excuse to touch me
Hes always asking me questions, or trying to start a convo.
He’ll poke me a lot
When i turn around to talk to someone behind him/slightly past him he’ll look & start a convo with someone else sometimes
Sometimes he’ll even talk to a girl that ik and get me jealous ughhh i hate that.

What he did today was so cute <3
i gave him something and he goes Thanks Babe & of course i said no problem babe back and omg i was dying inside.
He hugged me really tight today after walking me and my friend to her house

I cant help but think about him all the time and its hurting me a lot cause i just want him to really like me back and i miss his hug
Help how can i figure out if he actually likes me back!?
Should i talk to his friend? His friend is actually really trust worthy and the best guy ever and he wont tell a secret or a lie and hes probably the most trustable person ever, should i tell him that i kinda like his friend? or just sit here and be miserable?
Help :(

Category: Tags: asked November 12, 2013

2 Answers

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You don't need to ask his friend, by the way the boy is acting around you it shows he definitely has an interest in you, and who wouldn't!? You seem like a sweet heart and you should totally just casually ask him to join you on a date etc. If you even nervous then make it a small group date then either pay attention to how he acts around you with the group or ask your friends to "suddenly" cancel their plans so you two are stuck together! Have you ever seen that movie "He's just not into you"? Well if you have or not, in the movie they say "that if a guy likes you he will make it happen", so that means if this boy is working for your attention, and ONLY yours (ie he's not doing the same thing to other ladies), then he's definitely into you, and you're probably making him just as miserable as you are by not making a move! You can do it! Just casually ask to see a movie, or even just say to him "omg i want to see __(insert movie title)__ so badly, have you seen it yet?" If he has then ask him how it was and then try to bring up another movie "oh have you seen ________ too? We should totally check it out together!" He probably hasn't seen the movie (unless he's a movie addict), and if he's interested he'll say yes without a doubt. And if he's introducing you to his friends that another BIG sign. A guy doesn't want girls involve with their friends unless they really like them. So go for it!!! Don't let fear stopping you from a possible happy relationship!!! You can do it!!!
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@Destinee Your so right... but im not the only one he flirts with thats the problem. I feel like im just 1 of the girls he flirts with because im pretty and im in front of him. Im starting to feel doubt and i just dont know! hes a sweet guy and all and would hangout but ugh its so hard :(