Alright, I’m going to get right to the pint on this one. My brother is in the National Guard, and he’s leaving for Georgia for Basic Training in about three days.
Earlier this year, he started dating this girl, Kate, from work. She’s only about two years older than him. At first, my family and I liked her, she was really nice and seemed cool.
But, ever since Matt (my brother) and Kate started dating, he’s been a completely different person. He started drinking and stealing and god knows whats else!
Recently, he stole over $300 from my step dad, and I was blamed for it! He knew that he stole it, and he still let me take the wrap for it. That one little incident put me through so much hell, until he finally told my parents that he was the one who took the money.
After that, he moved out (after my mom kicked him out for leaving and not returning texts or phone calls for two days). We found out that his “girlfriend”, Kate, also has another boyfriend, which is NOT my brother, and is living with this guy!
She was totally using my brother for the past few months for his money, all while living with another guy. I hate her for treating him like this, and turning him into another person. But i’m also angry with my brother, still for letting her influence him, and for stealing from our family, and for leaving without a simple goodbye.
NOW, my main problem, is that he wants to visit within the next couple of days to say goodbye before leaving for BT, but i’m just too pissed at him to even see him right now.
I just don’t know though, because I still love him and he’s going to be gone for about four months, almost a thousand miles away.
After everything that’s happened,should I see him? Or no?
Thanks guys, it would mean a lot if you’d give me your input!