HELP ME PLEASSEEEE!!

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I’ve been really good friends with this guy since my freshmen year in high school, we have always been really close. People thought we were dating our freshmen year when we weren’t. He later got a girlfriend and I accepted that we wouldn’t date. then when he dumped his gf our junior year and was talking shit about her I got kind of excited since I still had feelings for him. we became friends again and went on a choir trip to new york together. on the trip we go closer than we ever had, we talked alot and we sat by each on the bus all the time. On the bus ride back we sat by each other and i fell asleep on his chest (it was like 2am) i woke up about an hour later to him holding my hand and rubbing my arm. it felt funny comming from him but i ignored it until he kissed me later and 2 more times on the ride back. i tried to talk to him about it but he said that things just happen and he didnt want to talk. he ignored me for the longest time and finally i got him to tell me that he would date me but he doesnt want to ruin our relationship. so I accepted it and tried to move on but then he started to cuddle and hug me and do things the way they were before. it was confusing. THEN he asked his ex gf out and told me about it in front of his priest and my best friend. I was mortified my friend knew i liked him and she said that she felt so bad for me. I don’t understand why he would led me on like that to just go back to his ex? I like him so much and he knows. I cannot give up on my feelings they are there and they will not leave. I have tried everything. Please help me. I need to know why he is being weird and what to do about it please help. Sorry this is so long.

Category: asked October 27, 2013

2 Answers

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accepted
You have 2 choices you can tell him how you feel & be honest, that way you won't have to wonder. Or you can accept what he told you & move on. Though it seems you really like this guy sometimes you just need to be the one to say something, but if you feel like he is using you so to speak, don't waste your time or it will just end up with heart ache.
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To me, it sounds like he just doesn't care about your feelings, since he's willing to go back to his ex even though he knows of your feelings for him. And for him to act all loving like that towards you and then do that? That's quite scummy on his part. It sounds like he's just not that into you. I would recommend cutting him out of your life completely, but it's up to you.