Help for getting out and only studying

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So i need help..,,really really important final exams are in a week.. and along with that worry im self inflicting about this one fling i had and with whom im in love.. he has bn avoiding me..nd i cant blame him cos its from my side only.but it affects me and with the stress of studying this is just adding on..cos for a week i really dont hv time to sort that out. I hv deleted watsapp n stuff so that i dont keep waiting fr his text or get disappointed wen he is online and he doesnt text. i really need to do well in this final..hw do i help myself not selfinflict and only concentrate on work

Category: asked April 18, 2014

3 Answers

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well first of, you said it yourself that ' finals ' are very important - you see your boyfriend, love, or fling -wont write them for you or dictate your future -you will and you would have to face the consequences if you do badly -Try reminding your self that you can deal with your love life and that problem once exams are over and that its not 'the end' .Also try studying in bits - meaning study for 30min then take a break for 10 then again 30mins then try testing your self-Every time, you think of your love life problem just write it down somewhere so that you feel like you expressed your self - or inbox me if you like - so that you can let it goBut at the same time try to keep reminding yourself at the end of the day YOU are the one who will go in that exam room alone - not him :)Good luck x
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when am super stressed for whatever personal reason during and exam period, i just watch the episode of greys anatomy they take their board exam and try and emulate the characters especially Christina young under great pressure to pass their medical boards with all their personal crap they do it. I know its a show but it works for me. You can watch it Here:http://www.zzstream.li/2013/06/greys-anatomy-s8-e22.html
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block everything out. switch off your phone. no facebook. just read, eat and sleep till you finish the exam. music helps when i wanna take breaks, or an episode o a comedy, then im back at it.