So many of you have heard me complain and vent about this relationship that i lost a couple months ago. well i have accepted that there is no hope that we will get back together, my mind has accepted the fact that she isn’t ready for the relationship i offer, she just wants to be a party girl, which i fully believe is a decision she will regret, but it is what it is. I know i deserve better than what she has given and i know that she has done me many wrongs. All this my brain has accepted and come to terms with, my heart on the other hand refuses to fully let go. I have gone to great lengths to erase her from my life. I have completely redecorated my house and threw out everything that i associated with her, i have been making self improvements and changing my habits as much as i can, hopefully for the better. i am trying to move on. but something always happens that puts her in my mind and brings me back down, whether it be a dream of her, the occasional conversation we might have once a week if even that. I’m stalling in my progress with moving forward because of this, cutting out what little contact we have wont do anything, its not enough contact to even really make a difference in anything, its more the dreams that i have and when i wake up she will be on my mind and i won’t be able to shake the thought and she’ll remain in my mind. This i have no control over, how can i move forward with the changes in my life when i have this problem of dreaming about her, and i might dream of her two maybe three times a week and every time i end up getting her stuck in my head. what can i do to keep moving forward despite these uncontrollable set backs?