Have Any Of You Ever Been Attacked While Venting On BlahTherapy?
Recently I’ve been going through some rough patches that I know won’t least for long. Not having anyone to turn to I decided it would be best to log in Blahtherapy and vent to someone like I always do because some days you just need someone to talk to! So my listener asked me what my problem was and I proceeded to tell him/her! To my surprise as soon as I was done he/she began blurting out ALL TYPES OF OBSCENE LANGUAGE, basically they just came on to BULLY any venter they got in contact with and unfortunately I probably like others fell into their trap! Well I don’t know about you but I CURSED their asses out!!!! After they received the WRATH of my words just stopped responding!!!! Not saying that’s the way you handle it but I was NOT about to be CYBER BULLIED by ANYONE!!!! Trust me they picked the wrong WOMAN to bully! If you EVER come across ANYONE who instead of offering advice just begins cursing you out or bullying you for no damn reason be sure to REPORT them or log out of that chat!!!! The way I handled it was just my way and they caught me when I was already in a bad mood! STOP CYBER BULLYING TODAY!!!!!!
I went all OUT on that person! This cyber bullying is just out of control and im not one to allow it but it was however immature to think that people will even go as far as taking advantage of people who maybe in a vulnerable state! Words have power and they can affect you be it in a positive way or a negative way! Smh some people are just so immature
I can't imagine that happening at all, let alone on a site where we come when we need someone understanding to listen to us talk about our problems. It really sucks to hear that happened to you, but I think your response was appropriate. I definitely agree that we should report any user who does this, so they don't have a chance to bully anyone else. That just shouldn't be a thing here... or anywhere. Period.
Yeah ive met a couple. I actually met one one on my first time of venting XD wasnt a good start and it stopped me from venting for a while but not everyone is like this there's just a few dicks out there
Personally I have never vented on the random chat about personal problems because I knew I would just come out even more mentally damaged. It's usually better to vent on the forums in my personal opinion, you get more sophisticated, well thought out responses. Some of these, "listeners" need to realize that when venters vent they are talking to the emotions of the person not the rational side of people. Or for the most part they're trolls just attempting to get a kick out of harassing venters just for being bored. Remember, most trolls are just looking for a reaction. I honestly recommend just not venting in the random chat, it's like finding a needle in a haystack. You mostly find trash and rarely you do actually find a kind meaningful person. But I wouldn't count on a 1 to (exaggerated number) chance of finding that. But that's your decision to make.
I got hung up on just now because they didn't like my answer. I hardly got out my full side of the story. Didn't come for sympathy or to be judged...came to talk. Instead i got reamed out. So now i know why i don't talk about my issues
truth is we shouldn't allow some peoples' idiotic actions to stop us from letting ourself be heard but your reason for not wanting to vent is totally understandable! Then again that's what they want though and if we do so then we automatically give them the power and that we must not do! lets not allow one idiots action to deture us from expressing ourselves!
I was asking how to make friends because I get excluded from things with my "friends," and this guy said something that I quite didn't understand, so he responded, "lol. No wonder you don't have friends" and logged out. How rude.