happiness vs gut feeling

Hey there well the only one who can answer this question is yourself. What I do want to say is what do you think about the fact he has a gf yet tells you he loves you? Something is quite off there... And I dont know why he was 4 hours late, but that isnt quite respectfull towards you in my opinion (unless he has a legitimate reason for it but he should have called you about it). In the end you know him better than I do and others do, so if I were you I should think it all over. Why did the relationship between the two of you end in the first place, why is he with another one if he loves you? And what do you want and why?You were happy before talking to him, and if you were to be with him you would be happy as well. So whatever choise you are going to make, its your choise. So even if I or someone else might disagree with it, its a choise only you can make ;) So listen to your intuition :)

It's up to you, but if he's seeing someone else, that's not a good thing at all. You should be his one and only or she should be his one and only, he can't have both and it's unfair of him to expect that. Being four hours late is shit of him. He may have a valid reason for it, but on top of everything else, I would say to leave it. If he comes to you with a sincere apology and you feel like the two of you could really have something, then I think you should tell him that he should leave this other woman first. Another thing to think about was why you broke up. Was it because he cheated? Did you have an argument that you just couldn't resolve? Or was it something that was mutual, such as one of you moving away or getting too busy with life at the time? Ask yourself if it's worth it to you to try again. Don't sacrifice your overall happiness for anyone.

Leave it. He's clearly seeing someone else. Save yourself any future heartache. He is clearly sending you a message being 4 hours late. Take the hint. Go on and have a happy life. You're deserve better and you deserve to be truly happy. Other people should add to your own happiness, but not the source of it. You should be the source of your own happiness. Don't give your power away. Trust your intuition and move on.

I think when your in a relationship for a long time, its hard to let go, even though you have been broken up. I think youll always love him and have that special place in your heart for him, but its obvious you need to move on, find someone who wants and needs you! someone who will treat you right and what not! we all deserve to be happy, and even though your happy being with him, it doesn't seem like hes the right guy for you! find things that make you happy, like reading, going to the gym, buying a pet, etc..keep your mind off him, as hard as it may be, it will be for the better, hope this helps