Guy problems

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So, right now, I like three guys for different reasons.

The first guy, I am trying to not really like right now because I think he is a player, but IDK if he really does like me.
One time I was helping him with finals for Engineering, and I jokingly said that I was dumb, and he seemed offended and was like don’t say that, you are super smart!
He emails me almost every night for math homework. Its not really that big of a deal, but he doesn’t really talk to me before that, and he has smarter friends.
On the other hand, he flirts with every girl. I am trying to not like him.

The second guy is the first guy’s best friend (another reason to stop liking the first guy).
He is super nice and funny, but I never talk to him.
I only have two classes with him, so I never really talk to him.
One time in math, I needed help, so he automatically walked over to help me, when there were lots of people in between us (but it COULD have been coincidence).
He DID tell me he wanted to get to know me better.
The only time he actually talks to me is when I am around friends though.

The last guy I like is my friend.
Everyone is friends with him.
He is super nice, and he is always talking to me in Science.
Yesterday, we were talking a test, and I turned around and we had a conversation because the teacher wasn’t looking.
Also, he was hanging out with me and my friends when we were working on a keynote.
Yesterday, our school had a carnival, and he was constantly coming over to me and talking to me.
The only problem with him is I have at least one other friend that likes him too, but she said I can have him because she likes someone else more.

Who should I like here? The first guy, second, or third? I usually don’t like to like multiple guys at once, so it would help if you guys could tell me who to choose, and how to get over some guys. (And before anyone asks, yes they DO stare at me even if they think Im no looking).

Category: Tags: asked April 12, 2014

4 Answers

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That's up to you. You have a guy who you say could be a player, but I can't stop you if you end up pursuing him. Players are very good at their job unfortunately, and can find a way to get at you (unless you're wise enough to stay away and refuse any advances from him). You then have a guy who said HE WANTED TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER but doesn't really initiate anything in person, maybe waiting for you to also communicate with him and see where it goes. And last, but not least, you have your friend who you know-- the only problem is you know some of the competition, which can become drama quickly. So....it's up to you. We shouldn't be the ones to decide. It's your heart, not mine. All I can say is choose carefully. Good luck on your situation! :)
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Oh, that's easy. Throw a handkerchief on the floor and make them fight to the death for your favor. :D

In all seriousness, we cannot choose something like this for you. It is up to you to discern which of the boys you like and want to date. The second boy already made the first move!

However, I wish you the best of luck. I don't subscribe to sap and sentiment very often, but "follow your heart" and see which one works out for the best.
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Thank you all, you guys have helped a lot.
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I personally do not think you should go with any of them, but even if I did I don't think that's a choice we can make for you. Good luck though.