Give up or keep trying?

I have been talking to this boy for about a year now. When we first met, I didn’t think anything of it. Hour before I knew it, I bonded with him and honesty really began to like his personality. I’ve had past relationships, but nothing has ever felt as right as this. Sometimes he can be immature, and try to joke but he takes it too far. Today he joked and it led into an argument. To make matters worse, his cousin talked to me and made me more doubtful. His cousin said he isn’t worth my time and I deserve better. But sometimes this boy can be perfect. His ex girlfriend went through the same thing and left him. Now my question is, should I leave like she did or should I stay? Please help.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked August 23, 2013

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Car carpenter

7 Answers

I think you should keep trying.

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KenzyK

it depends on how much you can take........keep in mind, he may never grow out of this phase

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Robin

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Sometimes guys could be weird. i don't understand them either, but i think you should give him a chance. he could possibly change to the better, and if he does then you'll be happy. but after the first chance and you don't think he wants a relationship like you do then leave, cause if you don't you could possibly fall in love and you don't want that.

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ThatOneGirl22

Dont give up without a fight...don't give up so easily on him. even if he has his own faults, and could be pain in ya arse sumtimes, you just can't walk out on him just cuz sumbody things u deserve better and he acts the way he acts sometimes. talk to him...tell him how u feel when it happnes. if u really love him..if it is. or else there are lots of fish in the water!

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Chaotic Bliss

Oh come on, keep on trying :)

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Ida

You're asking whether you should keep trying, but the question is, what do you want? If you're willing to put up with occasional bouts of immaturity for the beautiful points of his personality, then I say stick with him. Remember that no one's perfect, and if he's a really great guy aside from that one flaw, then I think he's worth the time and energy.

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Ink

I was in this same situation with my boyfriend. We've been dating for a year and a half now, and it took him about half a year to truly stop being that way. I felt a connection with him that I never felt with anyone else, I knew I didn't want to loose it or give up. If you can handle it, I wouldn't give up on him just yet things can get better. Try and stay positive during the time you are with him, the thing that worked for me was seeing him as my best friend. In the end if you can't see being in a relationship with him at least you two can be friends. Good luck :)

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