Girly as hell but prefer masculine pronouns?

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I can’t explain it, but I really prefer to be referred to by masculine pronouns. I am a born girl, I can be either boyish or girly (I crossdress sometimes, just whenever I feel like it), but either way…I prefer masculine pronouns. Even in my girliest outfit, decked out in wigs and all, I prefer being known as a “he”. I can’t explain it. But people on the internet are all like “fuck no, you look, act, and ARE a girl, so I’m not going to pretend you’re a boy” and I find that hurtful.

I don’t care for all this gender identity stuff (for others I support you, but for me it’s just not a big deal in my life), but I really, reaaally just prefer being known as a “he”.

…is this weird? Should I just drop it? Since it’s not as easy to transfer into real life, it’s become a habit of mine, for years, to typically sign up for websites and set my gender to “male” (when they make you choose). What do you think?

asked January 1, 2014

8 Answers

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i think you should really just worry about yourself and not what other people think about anything. whatever floats your boat! gender stereotyping sucks.
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Do what will make you happy. Don't consider what anybody else thinks, it's up to you and you only. It's not up to others to control what you want in life. Do what YOU want. And it's not weird at all :-)
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I say be yourself, and those who aren't comfortable with it can keep their problems to themselves. If you want to be referred to as a guy, then so be it. There are many girls who are the same way as you, I know some. It's just like there are some guys who prefer to be known as girls. Everyone is different. Don't be afraid to be yourself, and don't let the world pressure you into changing to appease people who don't even know you.
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I've gone through this before too, well, still going through it. I don't think it's weird at all. Sometimes you just have to be you. And if you're born a girl, but feel more masculine, you own it! :D I know it might seem "weird" to you, but if it's what you prefer, than it's what you prefer. I mean, I even go by Evan sometimes, and I cut my hair short because I feel more comfortable that way! You just have to do what you think is right. And if by going by male pronouns is right in your book, go for it! Don't let people trick you into thinking you're wrong. :)
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It's not weird at all! If you are more comfortable with masculine pronouns and it makes you happier, go for it. If other people have a problem with it (which is weird to me when it doesn't even affect them!), it's absolutely their problem not yours :)
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Let people know how you would like to be referred to. If they can't accept it, that is their problem. All you can do is follow what makes YOU happy.
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I think it makes you unique, and it's cool! You should do what you want to do and not listen to what other people have to say.
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