On 11/27/2014 My baby boy Shane was born, I have been in my currently relationship since 03/29/2013. The mother of my baby whom not be named took him with her family members to one of their other houses, and wont tell me where my son is. I called 911 and they told me they can’t do anything because we are not married and we have the same rights. What i need to know is what i can do, that baby means the world to me and i will do anything to get him back. Please someone help me on legal advice on what i can do.
Contact law enforcement and file parental kidnapping charges. "Same rights" does not mean one parent can abscond with the child at will. Hire a lawyer and compel her to appear at court. Fight for custody.
Well, I would probably advise against it because then she can take legal action against you. Just go to the police (not 911, they are not the police) and do it properly. If it comes down to the court deciding who gets custody in a worst case scenario where this doesn't get worked out, you want to look as decent and law-abiding as you can. EDIT: Seriously, go to the police already. All we can do is point you in that direction, you need to go and deal with it.
Try the police, not 911. Look up the number for the police department in your area and see if there is something they can do (which I'm sure there is), or you can go in in person and explain what's happening. Just keep in contact with the mother and see if you can, over time, get her to reveal where the baby is. Also ask why, either you're not telling us something or she has other unknown motives. EDIT: Also, see if you can get in contact with her family members and (politely) see if they are at their house. They may or may not tell you but it's something to try.
She has been telling her family members that I'm abusive and she doesn't want to be with me, of course its a lie but who would believe me when her mom just chooses her side? I used to get angry easily because i started to drink a lot of alcohol, i have been sober over 6 months i changed my life to what she wanted and the type of guy she wanted, I treat her like a princess, shes 17yrs old I'm 23, We both lived with her mom she agreed to help me get back on my feet. When im alone with her we are fine, but her mom likes to argue with me, she did it the same day we brought the baby back from the hospital on 11/29/2014, I took the newborn baby outside all bundled up ( My baby ) because they were arguing with me and i didn't want my little boy in that situation, they called the cops saying i was threatening them and they was afraid of me. The cops showed up couldn't do anything it was just a domestic dispute, her mom ends up leaving the house for a few hours, during that time me and my girlfriend get some time alone with our newborn baby, we talk some about what happened and resolved the issue i agreed on taking anger management classes (even though i felt like i don't need it, i'll do it for her) because she wants it, all of a sudden her family members walked in and took the baby without telling me where they went, she said I'm sorry but i cant do this anymore and left. I did nothing wrong I'm a great guy, I ended up packing all my things and leaving to my moms house because i was afraid of losing it all due to past experiences, I miss my baby boy so much i need desperate help
If i find out where the baby is, am i legally allowed to take the baby with me like she has done? i would feel safer that my little boy be in my family's hands and not hers as they are unpredictable, it is really weird that a bunch of women live in 1 house and lots of kids, no father figures around.
Also quick question, i have been moved out of their house for 1 day. what happens when i move out and they go back to the house is it still kidnapping? she wont let me see my son, so i guess that's a yes?