girlfriend blow up melt down

Personally I think your girlfriend has self esteem issues and should work on them. usually that is the case with jealousy and she needs to work on it. and also you seem a bit more mature and honest and if she's not on your level of that (since you say she kinda made a scene in front of people) then yes i would take it as a warning sign. your being honest and also remained loyal and your gf should respect that.

Personally, I think its only human behaviour, to be attracted to someone. It is not cheating, and should not be looked at, as an offence. Your girlfriend asked you a question and you answered, you are not in the wrong. And in fact neither is she, considerably, your girlfriend should have sat down with you in private, not in front of other people, she overreacted, but it hurts, to hear something you don't want to hear, she does have insecurities but so does everyone else. Trust me, I have had the same question, but yet it was okay, because we were in a private area, (my room). We talked about it. My advice is that you talk to to your girlfriend, talk where it is private, and explain to her that it is not okay that she asked you in front of others, say you are upset, about her reaction, and worried that she is still mad at you. The warning sign is that (the other girl) had something she didn't at that point of time, tell your girlfriend what you like about her, reassure her that you are still here with her, and have you ever said that she is beautiful? Communication is the key my friend. I hope this helps, because it definitely worked for my relationship, and we are still going golden! Good Luck!

having a crush on someone isnt cheating btw. it just means you admire someone else. doesnt mean you stop loving your bf/gf. and also doesnt last very long.

She had no place grilling you, she completely overreacted, and you should tell her not to act out like that again. Public meltdowns are a huge insecurity red flag, and that personally would be a deal breaker for me.

No you shouldn't take this as a sign, she's just a little freaked out. That's all, she's probably thinking the same thing and you should tell her your sorry. That's what girls like to hear. She's a little jealous and she just wants some attention. It should die down eventually!! Good luck with her and hope this helped!!