get ex back if he has a new gf?

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Wellll my boyfriend and I broke up in august(I know typical teen drama right? Haha) well he cheated but I forgave him and took him back. But he was always kinda iffy in the relationship. We then ended things on good terms (or so I thought) but now he’s been dating this other girl for about 3 months now and he swears he’s in love.. we haven’t talked since we broke up. But I’m just like what the hell do I do, man? It’s too confusing..

Category: asked January 5, 2014

7 Answers

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What's confusing?

You dated
You broke up
You dated again
You broke up again
He fell in Love

That was so straight forward, I'm confused on how you could be confused.

Also, to be fair, it's not typical teen drama. It's just typical drama. Adults and Seniors do this too.
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shoot higher then that.
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@inkhryptedQuery, she wants to know if she should try to get him back or not. If you would actually read the question you would know this.Hun, I am in the same situation you are in except they have been dating for only one month and he isn't in love, but he says that he "hates me". Love is hard dear and it will only get better in time!! Here is a quote for you, "If you really love something then let it go. If it comes back to you it's yours. If it doesn't then it wasn't really yours to begin with." Find some friends to help you get through it or who know about the situation that you are currently in. Having somebody to talk to always helps.P.S. Don't try to hard to get him back!! If he really loves you then he will make an effort to fight for you. (Unless his new gf is a total bitch, in which case...fight your ass off)
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Never chase a man who has disrespected you or treated you as anything less than you deserve. And trust me, you deserve better. Don't try to get him back, he has his life now. You should go and live yours. You WILL find something better. Good luck.
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well, you're right it's a typical teen drama. It's nothing you did. Some people need constant love and attention. that could always be the case with your ex. He need constant attention. And I think this is good for you. Once a cheater always a cheater is my motto. You deserve someone who will treat you amazing and not drop you like that. You can't blame yourself.
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Well, it looks like he is not worth any minute of your time anymore. He has disrespected you and it appears obvious that he just didn't care about your relationship enough to try. It happens to everybody, so it's alright. Now that he has a new girlfriend, and whether he really does love her or not, it is no longer the right time for you to try to fix things with him. Be the bigger person and give due respect to his relationship and this new girl. Let some time pass, keep your distance from him, and you'll get over this boy and be able to continue on happily to a boy who will treat you right.
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You shouldn't get him back, He's just gonna do the same thing. Do you want the heartbreak again? Wasn't worth your time then, shouldnt be worth it now. He has a new girlfriend, be happy for him. You'll find yours too, it takes time and patience. Good things happen when you least expect them. Stay strong! Message me if you need anything.