Just being friendly or does she like me back

So I just got this new lab partner in chemistry, I am Ben and I am 15 by the way. Anyway, she is really nice, cute, and smart. I have a crush on her, but I think I may just be getting my hopes up and I always get it wrong between when girls are being really friendly or when they are flirting. So, like we will tease each other, she will tease me more than I tease her. She seems really smart and I also sat next to her last semester and she never really needed much help…but now she is always asking me how to do such and such problems and always asking how I got the answer after I let her copy it. Also, normally I do not notice this stuff, but I happened to notice she was applying lip gloss during class today, and I do not know if she has done it previously or not. Also, during the chemistry lab today, I got a little bit annoyed with her at one point for something she said, do not remember what, and she asked me if it was something she had done or something like that, and it may have just been me and me getting my hopes up, but it seemed to me her voice softened a bit when she said that. However in study hall or even when we have a few minutes left in chemistry class and we can talk with anyone, she will talk to her friends not me. So, I do not know, hopefully you guys can help, also one last thing, I do not want to just ask her out or ask her if she likes me, without thinking that she likes me, because if I asked her either of those questions and she said no then it could be awkward and I do not want that. Thanks everyone, hope I was clear and you can help me.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked February 7, 2014

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bbblife42

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Thats a hard one kiddo, cause i cant see how shes acting but i would say shes interested, shes not sure if she likes you or not. but go for it really even if you text her or write a not or something you should find out how she feels just dont expect her to say yes cause then if she does you will be super excited.

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Shawna

Alright most girls from my experience unless they are completely infatuated tend to be very subtle in the way they express attraction. Not so subtle as applying lip gloss in class(her lips might just have been chapped) but subtle in ways you might not catch. Its can be hard to interpret these subtleties and being wrong about them can either leave you full of regret from inaction or completely embarrassed.It is a good start that she is friendly with you regardless of what is motivating that friendliness. How I would approach it though is by seeing if she is willing to give you her number, skype, or whatever as long as it allows you to have a real flowing conversation with her. This is good for a few reasons one it will give you more of a chance to feel her out her feelings toward you. Also it will hopefully give her a positive impression of you. If you can hold at least one good substantial conversation with her about anything then its time to ask her out. I know you said you didn't want to do this but if all you ever do is talk than you will most likely end up in the friend zone(it is definitely a real thing) and that is near impossible to get out of. Even if she was only being friendly with you before a long talk and having the confidence to ask her out will go a long way in your favor.Your a young man be brave and confident in everything you do. Don't be afraid to be rejected by a girl or for things to be awkward because it can only be as awkward as you let it. If this girl isn't into you don't let it hang you up just move on. Think about how the uncertainty is affecting you now and realize that you are solely in the position to rectify it. You can continue on trying to collect clues, look for secret meaning, and guess at her feelings or you can take a chance. I will tell you in my experience taking the chance has normally paid off either in a great relationship or by freeing me to redirect my attentions on other girls.

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Legionella