How do I get over a person that I fell in love with at first sight? How do I get over him when he was the one to plan our whole future and I was the one to fallow along. How do I get over someone who hates me….when he was the one to break me? How do I get over someone who I sacrificed everything to and lost my mind in the process of making him happy. I put up with a lot. Never should have given him a chance but he took advantage of my love towards him. How do I value myself for what I am really worth?