So I decided… I’m going to tell my parents. About my bf and I and about everything else… I know it’s going to be hard as hell. But it’s worth it. And my parents aren’t the understanding type. There’ll be a lot of tears and yelling but honestly, I’m gonna do this and I’m gonna stand up for myself not only for being able to see my bf but also as a person.

So… I guess my question is… do you guys have any advice as to how/when/where I should tell them? I was thinking writing them a letter. And I plan on telling my dad first when he comes here because he’s more patient than my mom but I like my mom better but idk. I was thinking of telling my dad that I need to talk to him, go to a public place with him like a Starbucks or bookstore or something and then give him the letter. And tell my bf ahead of time where I’ll be incase I need him there.

Idk tho. If you guys have any other ideas I’d appreciate it a lot! :) I plan on doing this in like, a week or so.

Category: Tags: asked May 28, 2015

2 Answers

If you wan to come to your parents in an adult manner then don't write it in a letter...stand up for yourself face or face and say what you need to say.
@JudgementFreeZone I'd love to. But I just have so much to say. And I don't think I'd be able to control myself. I know I'll just start crying and sobbing and nothing will come out right. I feel like by writing a letter I can get it all straightened out and all you know?