Final straw?

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My sister and I just had a fight, and instead of dealing with this problem ourselves, she called her friend ( who is coming over right now ) about it. Her friend is going to tell everyone at school what happened and my sister and I are going to be seen as babies. When she called her friend Samantha totally shifted the story to make me sound like the bad guy. I have this huge problem, I base a lot of my conversations and style to make people like me. I can barley walk outside without feeling like someone is judging me. All last year Samantha would make me seem like the bad guy when she told her friends about our fights. I’m done with her. What should I do, how can I fix this? Please don’t tell me to talk to Samantha, because all her friends will hear about it and I will be the bad guy. Everyone remembers what Samantha said from last year.

Category: Tags: asked April 12, 2014

1 Answer

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When my siblings and I get in a fight, I usually just decide to take some time away from them. Maybe just go someplace where your sister isn't, and think about what to do. Don't worry about the kids at school- it doesn't concern them, and if they want to gossip about you or your family that's their problem. Remember that anything your sister says will also come back to haunt her eventually, so maybe try talking to her about not saying anything she can't take back.