I felt strange toward my bf. we’ve been together for 2 years. This strange feeling started when i caught him once deleting his message from fb and texts from other girls. I traced one of them but it’s nothing flirty just being friendly. i talked to him all about this and he said he deleted it because it is unimportant and causes his phone to log. and after that i didn’t bring this up anymore. and now i feel so unstable. It is so unhealthy for me him deleting messages, it’s like keeping secrets. now, i began doing it also, whenever a guy chats with me in facebook i replied and deleted it afterwards.
This strange feelings comes with my guilty feeling for doing same things like him and my unstable feeling for him. I don’t know how to start over. I’m nowhere. please help.