Ex reaching out? or something else?

Is my ex GF trying to get back into contact by using her close friend? or is it in fact my ex’s friend who is suddenly into me? Back story: – We broke up after a HUGE argument 10 months ago – lots of shouting from both sides – I went directly in NC to fix myself after the BU and the fact I was physically attacked by my ex friend – I would bump into my ex on nights out quite often … she would constantly stare at me, get angry at me for no reason and then get jealous at me approaching girls. – Only just yesterday, when I was on Facebook, I received a friend request from her close friend (who I barely ever talk to, even before the BU). – The thing that’s weirding me out is the fact that a week after the BU I deleted all her friends. So guys, and girls, waguan?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked July 5, 2014

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3 Answers

Sounds a bit suspicious.

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andidear

It's hard to tell exactly what the motivation is. Again, all we have to go off of is a friend request. Facebook functionality changes every 3 seconds, but last I recall you can send messages without being FB friends. In other words, you can message her friend and see what she wants. Or if you're not comfortable doing that, you can accept her on a restricted profile basis to see if she reaches out to you once you're friends.It could be that she's just creeping on you, or that she's helping your ex creep on you. The restricted profile will prevent them from being able to creep, while opening up the lines of communication in case she is helping your ex reach back out. The real question is: if it is your ex reaching out, is that something that you want? If so, see where this goes. If not, decline!

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adventurous me

@Adventurous me ... thing is I did decline, because at the time I thought nothing about it ... it just does feel weird that she would bother asking her friend to creep when she blocked me, seemingly not wanting me to be in her life, something like 5 months ago!

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