I have a male friend who I’ve been friends with for years. In the last 5 months or so we’ve been spending a lot more time together though, we always hang out at my house and watch movies and he stays over. We even spent most of NYE together (alone for a lot of it). Some times when he stays over we cuddle, spoon, hold hands – and sometimes he will stroke my hair and my arms etc. There was 1 or 2 occasions where he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants while we were cuddling in bed, and then he stopped randomly… Some times when he stays over now he doesn’t even touch me at all, no cuddling or anything – and then other times he does. He always wants to hang out with me. Going to the movies, hanging out. He told me has anxiety and I think he is a bit insecure but I have given him sooo many opportunities to make a move and he hasn’t! Please help – what is going on in his mind??