Hi,
I am dating my bestfriend (we go to the same college), but we are staying apart (for 2 months) this summer. So we try to skype 2-3 times per week. However, in the evening, he is always online on facebook, but he seldom speaks to me. Like if I send him a message, try to start up a conversation, he replies after say 10 mins and it’s a very succint reply like, “yeah”. He reads stuff online (work related), and that I understand, but often, he just watches funny videos online/ reads reddit. I feel as if he doesn’t feel like talking to me
He is really nice to me in person, and has planned on going on a vacation with me. But I can’t seem to understand his facebook behaviour.
So what to you think?
And one more thing. if my bf ever tells his best friend (he is a really good guy friend of mine too, same college again), that he’ll say be online and play a game at 7, he will always do that. Like if we are together, he would apologize and show up for him,but when it’s time for him to show up for me, so that we can game, he is sometimes late (like today). I told him that he bailed on me today, and he said he was really sorry, that he was hanging out with his bestfriend. That’s a bit recurring actually. Like being late for a skype session for hangingout with his bestfriend,and then, I feel as if I come second. He told me that he thinks that it is not not nice to bail on his bestfriend for skyping with his gf who is not even there…but still, that upsets me. He tells me though, that I make him the happiest guy, and that I am the best gf ever. In fact, he has asked his mom and aunt if we can stay at his aunt’s place (which is in a different state from our college) for about 7-10 days for our own little vacation. I don’t know… he seems really sweet, but again, sometimes I just don’t know if he wants me as much.
It’s all VERY confusing.