Does he love me Enough?

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Hi,

I am dating my bestfriend (we go to the same college), but we are staying apart (for 2 months) this summer. So we try to skype 2-3 times per week. However, in the evening, he is always online on facebook, but he seldom speaks to me. Like if I send him a message, try to start up a conversation, he replies after say 10 mins and it’s a very succint reply like, “yeah”. He reads stuff online (work related), and that I understand, but often, he just watches funny videos online/ reads reddit. I feel as if he doesn’t feel like talking to me :(

He is really nice to me in person, and has planned on going on a vacation with me. But I can’t seem to understand his facebook behaviour. :(

So what to you think?

And one more thing. if my bf ever tells his best friend (he is a really good guy friend of mine too, same college again), that he’ll say be online and play a game at 7, he will always do that. Like if we are together, he would apologize and show up for him,but when it’s time for him to show up for me, so that we can game, he is sometimes late (like today). I told him that he bailed on me today, and he said he was really sorry, that he was hanging out with his bestfriend. That’s a bit recurring actually. Like being late for a skype session for hangingout with his bestfriend,and then, I feel as if I come second. He told me that he thinks that it is not not nice to bail on his bestfriend for skyping with his gf who is not even there…but still, that upsets me. He tells me though, that I make him the happiest guy, and that I am the best gf ever. In fact, he has asked his mom and aunt if we can stay at his aunt’s place (which is in a different state from our college) for about 7-10 days for our own little vacation. I don’t know… he seems really sweet, but again, sometimes I just don’t know if he wants me as much.

It’s all VERY confusing.

Category: Tags: asked June 13, 2013

3 Answers

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maybe just give him his space and treasure the times you do spend together.. sometimes when you see a person on line its best not to contact them everytime you see them as it could result in them feeling smothered....and you dont wanna reach stalker status.....that will make anybody run....just relax, chill and enjoy your skyping....even a couple times a week is enough for now....do other things when your mot skyping so you can have things to talk about ....good luck :)
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If he planned a vacation with you, he definitely does like you a lot. If he says he's busy then he most probably is. Don't be confused, guys aren't as complicated as girls are. I'm sure he isn't lying to you. Give him some space. He will appreciate it. It is going to be hard and it might even hurt a bit but don't worry about it! More over you are dating your best friend. He still spends time with you and he isn't completely avoiding you or getting away from you. And if this is really bothering you then you should tell him you want to spend more time with him. But I still suggest you let him be. He will spend more time with you.Meanwhile grab some popcorn, watch a movie, dance or sing! Keep yourself engaged in something you like doing by yourself. I'm sure your boyfriend really likes you :) Take care! <3
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Sweetie, I think you should try giving him some space. Let both of you get time alone and every once in a while try to have a chat. Also Its hard to understand anyone's facebook behavior. If he says he cares about you then you should believe him. His best friend is also important in his life. I would try giving him a little bit of space. And if you feel hurt like you come second than maybe you should try telling him. Guys can be very confusing. I can tell he loves you a lot if he wants to go on vacation with you :)Best wishes