I’m a 17 year old girl. Last summer my friend (girl) started talking to a guy who was moving to our school. She told me that he added her on facebook but i don’t think this is true since she was cyber stalking him a few days before. She started telling me a lot about him and told me that she wanted to introduce us. She also started telling me that we would make a cute couple and that maybe we should date. I wasn’t that interested at that time. So when school first started she introduced us but we didn’t really talk, i just said a quick hi and he kept staring at me then i had to go. The day after that i found out from my other friend that my friend had feelings for that guy and that she never wanted to introduce us and was just joking about the dating thing. Although i’m sure she wasn’t because that’s what she talked about all summer. We grew apart after she found out that i knew. I stopped talking to her because she hurt me and was so mean to me. Although that guy didn’t really know me, my friends and i noticed that he stares at me a lot. One day we had a festival at school, my friend and i were walking and i saw him and his friend walking in the opposite direction. Then he whispered something to his friend and they turned to walk in our direction after we passed near them. They were walking very near to us and then he smiled at me. I thought i was imagining it but my friend saw that smile. After that day i wanted to get to know him more but i wanted to make sure that he wasn’t in a relationship with my friend. So my friends helped me out and we found out that he doesn’t like her at all. Not even as a friend. But he doesn’t like to hurt people’s feelings so they stayed friends. One of my guy friends helped me meet him on the last day of school. I was with 3 of my friends and my guy friend and the guy i like came. I admit that i was nervous and awkward so i wasn’t funny or cute so he didn’t seem to like me. But the strange part is that he didn’t even know my name and i felt that he wasn’t interested. My friend who i stopped talking to talked to me one day and said that she wants to fix things and stuff like that but she was rude and not clear and while we were talking she told me that he likes her but she doesn’t anymore ! I don’t believe her because she’s the kind of girl who exaggerates and over analyses everything and she has unreal fantasies in her mind. But now i don’t know whether to lose hope or to keep trying to know him ? There are so many mixed signals from him it’s like one day he’s staring anf the other he doesn’t even know i exist. And i’m starting to think that if he likes me he would have tried to get to know me and at the same time i’m scared that i may have left the wrong impression that time we met. So does he like me or not ? And what should i do ?
