Does anyone know what the best way to cure lesbian bed death is?

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Ive been with my girlfriend for 4.5 years and she wont touch me. Ive given her everything she wanted sexually and i get nothing in return apart from the same routine all the time everytime. Its gotten so bad that it the same routine ahs completely stopped working for me sexually.. Im not turned on by it and its not making me reach orgasm. I have tried to speak to her about it to try different things but she wont! Ive neevr experienced oral but yet its all false promises says she will give it me but then doesnt… Am i doing something wrong?

Category: asked August 27, 2014

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Your partner is lying to you and does not want to do anything else, but she doesn't want to lose you, so she is stringing you along with false promises of fulfillment.

You need to explain to her that you have NEEDS, not wants, NEEDS, and she is NOT fulfilling them. Break up and find someone who will love you in more than words.
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While the guys are right... moving on is the easiest solution to the problem - what they're dismissing is that this is in a sense like a marriage. And, it might be for all we know as same sex marriage isn't legal everywhere - it doesn't make it less real in you heart. This is four years of your life you're throwing away to walk out the door.

Start sending her things you think are sexy or that arouse you. Watch a porn together where they play out one of your fantasies. Ask her about what she's interested in. If at that point something isn't starting to change you might need to look into more drastic help.

Is she depressed? Does she think your relationship is broken? Why isn't she really having sex with you? Is this a medical or psychological issue?