Do you guys think I am being used?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months, he never met my parents and we see each other once a week and all we do is to have sex every freakin week. but he genuinely cares for me we know each other for like a year,we live an hour-drive away from each other. but every time we see each other we go to a hotel just to have sex, we never really just hangout to his home and stuff. but he cares for me, i can feel that, and i know sex is part of a relationship but i was just thinking maybe he ‘s just using me for sex? what do you guys think? but he knew a lot about me and my past, and i can feel that he loves me.

Category: Tags: asked November 1, 2013

3 Answers

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If he hasn't taken you Home & would rather take you to a Hotel Room i feel as if you need to ask him why he avoids Taking you Home and why he has not Met your Parents yet, you don't deserve to be treated this way as no one should be, if your worried about being used just for Sex then test him and refuse to have sex next time use meet and if he does not agree he is not worth your time but if he is genuine he will wait until your ready, meet your Parents and take you to his house, one thing i am sure of is that if you continue to give him what he wants he probably won't change, hope you sort everything out. :)
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sounds like there's a bit of fake emotion on his side to be honest so maybe just talk to him straight out about it and just not have sex like maybe go an an actual proper date no sex see what he thinks of that? or better yet if he does that and still looks for it say straight out something along the lines of "I feel your just using me and I don't want this to get too deep if that's the case because truly do love you" and depending on his reply's and actions to all that you can figure out exactly what's going on :) Regardless I hope you find out soon and I hope he genuinely does care and feel for you :) Good luck <3
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Honestly, personally yeah a little you are. I just don't see how you can say he cares about you so much if all you guys do is have sex. And I respect gut feelings and intuition as much as the next guy its just that "I feel that he loves me" doesn't really inspire much confidence he does. I think if he did he'd demonstrate that in other ways. So yeah I think he's using you a little. And yeah I also think he doesn't care. But that's based on the assumption that all you do is have sex.