Do I tell him? Or just let it be?

So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now and we are very serious. He is extremely jealous whenever guys talk to me so usually when a guy will try talking to me on faceook or something I’ll just tell them that my boyfriend wouldn’t appreciate my talking to them and they leave me alone. But recently his very bestfriend has been messaging me on facebook my boyfriend was aware of this and he was okay with it. At first it was friendly but then he started very obviously trying to flirt with me. I didn’t respond to any of his advances and eventually he got the hint and stopped trying. My boyfriend always wants to know whenever another guy is interested in me and he usually ends up confronting them. I don’t want to turn him against his best friend, but I also don’t like the idea of keeping anything from him. What should I do? Should I tell him about it, or just let it be?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked November 24, 2013

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Kenzi

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I would show him the messages and let the messages speak for themselves. Let him decide what action to take. if he found out some other way later, it could be worse.

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Michael

Are you absolutelly sure he flirted with you? You might have misinterpreted, if he did hit on you, either he's not a very good friend or he really likes you, have you talked in person with him? If you feel you should tell your bf you should do it, but be sure that's what happened.

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Rui Gomes

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You should absolutely tell him. Not even necessarily because he'd want to know if it was any guy but that's supposed to be his best friend, & if his best friend is a snake, he deserves to know about it.

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Sammie

You should tell him. If he's a real friend he wouldn't have flirted with you, but who knows, maybe you just misinterpreted him.

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Emily

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If that were me , I would not want to break a friendship. The only way I would tell him is if his friend didn't stop messaging me and/or he tryes to get physical or confront me. My bf is the same way so I've often wondered what I would do in that situation. But in the end it ur choice so good luck!:)

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