So I’ve known this guys for 2 years now. We were friends for 2 or 3 months. Then he was persistent in asking me out even when I told him no. He kept asking for about 6 months (persistent and patient I know). And in April of last year I said yes to being his girlfriend. We dated for 14months. He has what I call “single child syndrome” he’s very emotionally closed off and he does everything from working out problems to chores by himself. He doesn’t take help for anything. Well when things get too much for him he has two reactions. He either fakes being happy, or he takes time off from the relationship. He’s taken time off from the relationship 3 times but he’s always come back in a week or so. But on June 28th. He just unexpectedly broke up with me then later told me he needed a lot of time. This blindsided me because just a couple hours earlier he was holding my hand and kissing me and telling me he loved me. Well. It’s been a month since then and he’s told me everything from lets wait a year to date again so were on the same page again education wise, to I’m going through a hard time and need space to figure things out, to I’m just taking time off to get all the partying and stuff out of my system so when school starts back up we can have a smooth relationship, to let’s see each other soon, to I’m too busy to see you which must mean we shouldn’t date anymore, to find a new guy. For the past two weeks we’ve just been talking as friends and well there’s just something in me that keeps telling me to wait to see what happens. Should I be waiting?
