do I have hope in my relationship?

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My bf and I are dating for 4yrs. He moved away 4 months ago and we constantly fight. Do long distance relationships really work?..

Tags: asked January 5, 2015

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Sometimes it works but sometimes not!! its all about u two!! have patience and keep cool, relax yourself a bit u r depressing ur self for nothing just talk wiz him with a bit of love. u need to support urselves!
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Long distance relationships are really hard. They are possible! I started off long distance and now I am military, and at times am away from my husband anywhere from a couple weeks, a month and even a year! It's never easy and it takes a lot of commitment, trust, and communication but it IS possible! You just have to talk. Be patient! If you are truly dedicated to your relationship, it will work out! Love conquers all. Good luck to you
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Thank you all.. I will try my best. It's really hard because before he left I used to see him like everyday. We were so close. And now I see him maybe once in two months if I'm lucky. He has become really insecure. He thinks I've got something going on with every guy I meet. It's actually embarrassing sometimes because if I say I'm in a meeting (I'm a teacher) he wants proof that I'm with ALL teachers and not with one of the male teachers alone.. most of the time, his proof refers to me taking selfies with the staff. Ofcourse I cannot do that because it would be unprofessional in a meeting. So he thinks otherwise. insecurity is just one of the many things I have to go through.
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Ok that's a different problem if he's making you prove what you say it could lead to other problems in the future. A relationship is all about trust without trust the relationship goes with it. :/ talk to your bf remind him how much you like him and why you do then tell him to trust you more. You don't want to keep taking selfies with your coworkers do ya? But yes long distance relationship is possible but it takes a lot of trust and communication, but some people just aren't meant for that. Best of luck :)