im 6’3 and weigh 140lbs. Ive tried hitting the gym and eatting more but its a struggle. I am self conscious about the way i look so want some actual thoughts. Dont try to make me feel better by saying its okay, i want your honest opinion.
The fact that you're a 6'3 guy, you're already a shoe in for the ladies. They have an obsession with tall guys.I'm a 5'10 guy, and about 124-125 pounds now, but I'll always lose to a taller guy, especially if he is skinny like me too.
Ok, honesty time. Tall and lean is definitely SEXY! But, since I'm only 5'5", a taller guy kind of intimidates me (especially someone your height, almost a foot taller than me!). I always think "I'd look funny only coming up to his armpit" or something and then my mind wanders to how in the heck sex would work because our sizes are so different. I mean, yeah the mechanics are the same (God, did I just mention the "mechanics" of sex?) but I like to be able to kiss and bite and all that and if he's that much taller than me all I'll be level with are his armpits. I'm flexible, but I can't stretch THAT far. So while I love me some tall, lean eye candy, I don't typically go for guys like that because of my own... I won't call them insecurities, since they're really not, but those thoughts in my head. So there ya go!
Hmm.. If it were me, you are a bit taller but I don't mind that. :D
It makes me feel secured you know. It feels like if I need to cuddle, I totally can go to you. Lol Yeah it's a bit skinny and putting more weight would be nice. But probably it's your genetic so.. There you go, in my honest opinion.But, you do know right girls don't always go for the look?
It's the way guys treat us that is matter.
As a girl myself, I can tell you that yes, we like tall and skinny guys, but the bf I had weren't... they were short guy, except one who was tall and skinny, but too skinny... But the things is that a lot of girl doesn't care.. of course, like everybody, we look the appearance first, but when we get to know someone, if we really like this person, we don't care about how he or she looks... So please do not try to please people by changing your appearance, especially if it's hard for you to change. Just try to get ppl to know you better. I'm honest.
In my class there are two boys that I like: One is tall and got beautiful muscles, every girls find him really handsome.. and there is another one, who is short, skinny, and even though he is not ugly at all, he's not really good looking either. But I like him better just because to me he's nicer, and funnier.
Hope I helped :)PS: sorry for my english, I guess I made some mistakes but I'm french
Uhhh....YESJokes aside, everyone has a preference. Somebody, somewhere, is bound to be attracted to some unique trait of others. don't worry about it, really. One of my relatives is super short (shorter than me, and she's like 50) and her husband is a friggin GIANT. I sometimes find it funny when I try to picture them doing something like slow dancing or hugging, but they're in love, so who cares?my advice, just don't worry about it. trust me. I'm sure you're cute no matter how tall you are. tall guys are always cute!