So I’ve been dating this girl for about a couple months and it turns out she has depression. However, she only just decided to tell me, and I’m really not sure how to react. I’ve only had one other experience being in a relationship with someone who had depression and she turned out to be nothing short of selfish, overly emotional, and controlling. I see the warning signs all around me, but I’d feel like a heartless jerk leaving yet another relationship because I can’t handle the amount of stress that it puts me through seeing someone in so much pain and dragging me down with them. The girl I’m currently dating is significantly different in personality, but I see the all-too-recognizable pattern of instability and it’s tearing me up inside thinking I’m going to have to take up another caretaker role in the relationship. I’m not happy, and I want out before things get out of hand. Suggestions?