I have developed feelings for my female friend whom I know for about a year and a half now. We are not BFF’s but always had a great connection. We shared laughs and I also thought she was interested in me in a romantic kind of way. Last month we had drinks together for the first time without other people, which lasted for hours and we had great long talks. I decided to act upon my feelings now, so I invited her over for dinner, which she happily accepted. But when I texted her about food preferences and allergies, she texted: “are you going to cook yourself? it’s not a date “. Even though I did not show my true feelings to her yet, I was planning to romance her at our dinner date. But now that she says that it is a friendship date, I am insecure whether I should pursue. I am really in love with her, but with the girls whom I fell in love with, I always strike out. Maybe because I become to unsecure or don’t show them my true feelings. Please advice, because I do not know what to do next.