Daddy?

Hi Rose! From personal experience with BDSM. Things that are said and done during sex, stay inside sex. Trust me. When we (humans) have sex, many things happen inside of our bodies. Chemical reactions, stimuli are stimulated, blah blah blah sciencey stuff. But we also say and do things in the heat of the moment. Then when you're done with sex and everything goes back to normal, it probably seems really weird or disturbing that you did or said some of those things. But outside of that, nothing else really changes.Now about your friends and your boyfriend being a "pedo". Your friends just sound like they're embarrassed/immature and just don't know how to deal with something like that. Many things that one person finds to be a turn on, others might get extremely turned off by. Your boyfriend becoming a pedo has nothing to do with you calling him daddy or master. Becoming a pedophile has to do with other, much greater and more intense/severe psychological issues.All in all, it's natural and it's you and him. Do what you like. What makes you guys happy. And keeps things hot and heavy. And maybe in the future keep things like that to yourself? Or talk to is here on BlahTherapy, or just one really close friend.Hope I helped!!~Soulless-Infinity

Your friends are probably just jealous because they have boring sex.

Honestly, it's none of anyone's business what you or your partner like to hear in bed. What happens behind closed doors is sometimes best to stay behind closed doors. I've found that a lot of my Spanish friends have in common that they like being called or like calling their partner "Papi," which is "Father" in Spanish. It's all preference.

Your friends don't understand the lifestyle. Don't let their ignorance make you question what you enjoy. Never justify your desires.

Haha I don't think it's weird actually. Doesn't sound quite as pedophilloic, more like he wants to feel like the dominant one, which you obviously like. Nothing weird there! We all have our own tastes and preferences ;)

I don't think it's weird or a big deal, but understand why some people would be creeped out. Kinks often don't fall under being 'socially acceptable'. But remember, bedroom play is bedroom play. As long as you're mature and respectful to each other and aren't hurting others in the process, there's no issue. In the future, you might want to feel out how open-minded your friends are before laying out something personal. I'm sorry that they made you question your behavior, and for being outright insulting.

I'd like to also point out that in the 1920's through the 1950's "daddy" was a term for a cool guy not necessarily a "father".

You are find and normal, don't worry about it. There are TONS of people out there like you. Check out fetlife.com if you want to connect with more of the BDSM community. :) Good luck and have fun!