cycts bump on vagina line


So I am planning on having sex with my boyfriend in two days but I have a bump on my vag area. I don’t wanna tell him no again BC I did it to many times now so i don’t wanna lie to him again. Is he more likely to see the bump or feel it ?

asked January 14, 2015

2 Answers

Don't let this make you insecure about taking that step. A guy isn't always so comfortable either about certain things. I can't tell whether he'll feel it or not, but if he does he probably won't make a deal out of it at all. However, I also want to say, only take this step when you feel ready. Don't feel obligated because he already asked you so many times. Only say yes when you feel ready for it. I also think he shouldn't ask over and over again. He should wait until you give him a sign that you're ready.
Just keep an eye on it. It if gets worse you may want to talk to a doctor. Do you shave? Because shaving can causes bumps. Also, don't have sex with your boyfriend just because he requests it. If you don't want to, don't feel comfortable with it or not ready...whatever the reason, then don't. If he cares for you at all, he won't make you have sex or guilt you. Are you comfortable enough to talk to a parent or someone about it? It's hard telling. But like I said, if that bump gets worse, talk to a doctor.