I m 19 years old. I m going through a tough time, I keep crying b/c i can t get something off of my mind. I met someone and I started to really like him. He liked me to, as he claims. We eventually hung out a few times and things went well! He was sweet nice and funny. So one day I ended up giving head. We were gonna have sex but I decided not to. Its been 3 days and he hasn t talked to me since. He tweeted that same day “I loose interest fast, sorry sis” and I immedanlty thought it was about me, it had to be. He also said things like “why can t god give me my soulmate, I m tired of being in meaningless relationships” etc. basically just forgetting i existed, he also tweeted “Wheres the consistency?” Idk I feel so used, I went out my comfort zone for him and now we don t even talk for whatever reason. Has anyone experienced something similar and coped?
Do not guilt yourself for the failures of another person to attempt to understand you. You did nothing wrong, and therefore you have nothing to feel guilty for. You are lonely and you reached out, but it went poorly; your feelings are entirely understandable. That being said, you have to learn to be kind to yourself.
If you end up being able to talk to him about it, please do. However, he is not worth your time. As hard as it is for you right now, I'm sure it must hurt so much to be ignored. You must understand that you will never be happy with someone who ignores you and tosses you aside when he gets what he wants. Do you really want to be close with someone who tosses you aside so easily? No. Find a guy who deserves you.
Honey he just wanted to get a nut. Don't lose any sleep over the asshole. I'm willing to bet he will come back when he wants something else, but now you know that he's an asshole so you can tell him to go suck his own little dick.