Crying for help

it's not weak you said yourself that it's human nature. everyone handles their problems differently if talking doesn't work for you, try drawing them out or writing them down or (i say this because of your Sims reference) maybe play out your problems on a sim character and see them from 3rd person view. But maybe your not talking to the right people, this site is amazing and full of wonderful people try talking to anyone of them. Pm me if you want to talk.

The way you are feeling is not weak. It is completely normal to want attention and help especially when you are in hard times. I find it can really help to find a good friend or therapist who you can really talk to about the issues that you are facing. That way you can have an outlet to discuss what you are feeling instead of feeling ignored and helpless. Much love

Anyone who would judge someone for crying has their own personal insecurities that is their problem. If crying were such a foolish thing, we wouldn't have the ability to do it. It is very much a necessary release sometimes. And yes, it happens in our weak moments as if there is something wrong with acknowledging that you are weak and in need? None of us are self-sufficient. And the people who try to pretend like they are are probably the worst off because they're not being honest with themselves. We're all weak, limited, in need. This is reality. Someone who can't accept that is weak in a bad way because it actually takes more courage sometimes to admit that you need help than it does to hold it in and act like you've got all your crap together.Anyway, surely there is something you enjoy doing in life - before you started feeling this way. There must be something. Find out what it is.

It's not weak as you said, it's human nature. We all have some rough parts sometimes, and it's not always we manage to get ourselves up on our own. Sometimes we need a helping hand or someone to just listen. Maybe you just haven't found the right person yet. Or maybe you need something else than talking, try writing it down. Everything you feeling, imagine that you transfer it down on the paper. Sometimes seeing the whole puzzle and not just pieces her and there makes it a bit easier to figure out what to do next.

Also, remember the fact that you are awesome, and you deserve to be happy just as much as anyone else. You'll get there to, don't give up on yourself. Feel free to message me if you want an ear.

Good luck!