So last week I met this guy on my bus and he liked me instantly and after 3 days he asked m out. Well I stupidly said yes, but on Monday after like 3 days, I told him I didn’t wanna be with him. Well I guess he didn’t get the point and he still stares at me, and tries to make me sit with him when I don’t want to. I know this may sound weird, but I feel like he’s the type of guy who is SO obsessed with me that he will.. I know this is weird, but kill me or someone because he can’t be with me. And having to be on a bus with him for 20 minutes is torture. I don’t know what to do and I told my dad but he said to keep riding the bus, and we will try to find a different bus. PLEASE help!!!!
Have you asked him to please leave you alone? It could be that he just really likes you, and maybe wants to be your friend, but if he's making you uncomfortable, you need to make that be known to him. If he doesn't leave you alone, or he harrasses you in any way, tell authority. Perhaps you can convince your father to talk to the guy's guardians about his behavior if it worsens or does not get any better.
If you feel in danger tell someone. This is truly important. Some people think is no big deal but you have to tell someone in case something happens ok?
Next, tell him straight away "you're making me unconfortable, I already told you I want to be alone and I don't want to be with you. please don't come close to me". If he starts getting agressive, remember you have people around in case he does something bad to you, you'll have proof against him. And in case he doesn't harm you but sends you a creepy vibe, warn the local police center.
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