Confused with love?

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What is REAL love.

I’m stuck. I have an ex that I was about to date and I have a gf now. With both I have felt infatuation. With the ex crush, I can sometimes get this tingly feeling. But we ne’er went out AND I grew to ABSOLUTLEY HATE her personality. With my current girlfriend we have been dying for awhile. There is no more tingly feeling. But there is some other emotion there. My guess is love. But what’s up? Because last night I had a dream about ex and it have me tingly feeling, by I hate the ex’s personality. And with my current gf, if I dream about her there isn’t a tingly feeling, but in my dreams she is always considered my gf

Category: asked July 5, 2014

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What I suspect is that maybe your last girlfriend was beautiful and found her attractive,so that is why maybe you were more sexually attracted to her.But your new girlfriend might not be as nice looking as the other. Your last girlfriend didnt have a nice personality so that's why you dumped her but your new girlfriend has an amazing personality thats why you are with her. To be honest i think you should stick with your current girlfriend because she has a way better personality then the other and maybe if you get to know her more in the inside she will shine in the outside aswel,love will come one day,enjoy life and be excited for love because let me tell you its one hell of a journey;) Good luck:)
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There's quite a lot of answers (and questions!) around the subject of true love and what it is. There are obviously different forms of affection, since your love for a dog is different from a parent and different from a girlfriend. I live with the philosophy of LOVE and LUST in which LOVE is choosing the best course of action for someone else, and LUST encompasses your personal wants and desires, usually with choosing the course of action that is best for you. Now LUST isn't always sexual, it's simply one's desire to have something.

Now this sounds strange, but let me give you an example. "When you like a flower, you pick it. But if you love a flower, you water it everyday." Do you see how the philosophy works here? When you love a flower, you choose the best course of action for it, by taking care of it even though you probably want to pluck it. Hey, it's just my 2 cents, so take it for all it's worth.